We’re closing on this house today and the new house tomorrow. I’m not sure when I’ll have internet hook-up there so I’m going to spend tonight during Noah’s Hebrew school clearing off my work desk.
Today the kids had toast for breakfast and toast for lunch (peanut butter in the morning and cream cheese in the afternoon) because the kitchen is being dismantled and packed plus the cupboards are bare I’m not grocery shopping again until we move. We plan to feed them a fine, nutritious dinner of course but heck, bread is a staple the world over. That’s what I tell myself anyway. They can always eat from the half-empty jar of pickles if they get really hungry.
Packing is taking longer than I expected because I’m still laboring to be organized. Usually I just toss things in at random but now I’m trying to actually group like-things together and label succintly.
I’m nervous about this closing because the buyer’s mean father is going to be there and I’m hoping he doesn’t say anything rude to us. The funny thing is that my dad wanted to come, too, and I almost wish he could just because it would probably be amusing to watch the two fathers huff at each other. Righteous indignation on behalf of your child is a parental staple in many families. And frankly it felt nice to have both my mother and my father frothing on my behalf when they heard about our troubles with the buyer’s dad.
Tut, tut, it looks like rain. Best go get the laundry inside.
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Shelba
September 14th, 2005 at 4:45 pm
I’d like to go with you just so I could sit behind you and give the buyer’s dad the glaring of a lifetime.
Congrats! I’m sure you’re ready for this side of the moving on to a new house bit over with so you can move into your wonderful new house.
hmbalison
September 14th, 2005 at 5:33 pm
Dawn,
Think back how quickly you sold the house–how you got the house you wanted. I know this feels like it’s been a LOOONG processing, especially with the cranky-pants dad, but it’s only been a matter of 6 weeks or two months—Woo hoo. You guys are starting a new life in a new happy home.
Congratulations.
Alison
Kath
September 14th, 2005 at 5:38 pm
Tut tut.
We feed our kids nothing but bread plus something else, well most of the time.
So that you resort to that only with a big move in the works, makes me bow down to you.
Hope you have deflector sheilds up if there is a glarefest.
(We have been watching just waaaay too much tv as we recover from our various illnesses.