That darn MayhemMama goes and writes a beautiful comment and an intringuing question and so I’ll just blame her for the fact that I’m sitting here in my pajamas (at 10am) updating my blog!
I would love to read more of your thoughts on faith and adoption. I like your explanation that your family needed [...]

It’s taken me awhile to blog the pomegranate thread post even though I was asked to feature it awhile back. I was trying to figure out why I was so reluctant and then I realized it was because I felt like a hypocrite: I’m not wearing a pomegranate thread and have no plans to.

I don’t [...]

Stirrup Queens and Sperm Palace Jesters: The History of Infertilitys Common Thread

For anyone who has ever had a miscarriage, struggled with pregnancy, and all things infertile…there is a movement upon us that you might want to join. Its rather simple actually: a discreet ribbon on your right wrist to signal to others that they are [...]

But I sense and sensed, at least in many of my friends who came to adoption through infertility, a whole other layer of confusion, grief, wondering etc. Maybe they hadn’t done the work of processing that you all are talking about?
I don’t know. But it’s really not about the feelings; it’s about the entrenched [...]

Two people have misunderstood me so I know I must have been muddled in what I was saying.
I am NOT saying that women who adopt should give up plans to pursue treatment in the future. I AM saying that women who come to adoption through infertility need to be clear that our infertility journeys and [...]