Quietly Mothering is doing a survey on putative father registries. Can you help her out?
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Finally, tagged by Anti-Racist Parent! The meme below the cut!
1. I am:
Russian-Jewish peasant stock (dad) and German-rooted working class (mom). White.
2. My kids are:
Noah: Some of me, some of Brett who is also white and anglo-saxon white through and through.
Madison: We don’t know her dad’s side but her mom’s people, on both sides, were long-time residents of New Orleans. (Some of them left in the 80s and some of them left after Katrina.) They have a French last name and were/are culturally (and some religiously) Catholic. Madison is African American/white. (I can’t tell anything about her dad’s genealogy based on his name but I know that he’s white.)
3. I first started thinking more about race, culture, and identity when:
A little bit when I hit college but I really started thinking on it when I started working at the YWCA. I’d also switched my major from English to Sociology, which contributed to my progress. A
4. People think my name is:
Jewish. (This is one of many reasons I didn’t change it.)
5. The family tradition I most want to pass on is:
Our noise and humor. (Ok, that’s two traits but getting together and being loud and funny is our best tradition.)
6. The family tradition I least want to pass on is:
Alcoholism runs pretty rampant on one side of our family.
7. My child’s first word in English was:
Noah: fan
Madison: star
8. My child’s first non-English word was:
Noah speaks some Hebrew. Madison is, like her mother and father before her, mono-lingual.
9. The non-English word/phrase most used in my home is:
Schmutz.
10. One thing I love about being a parent is:
Hanging with these two little people who are pretty damn entertaining.
11. One thing I hate about being a parent is:
Divided attention.
12. To me, being an anti-racist parent means:
I like what Carmen said: “It means that I never stop working on myself. I want to keep reading, writing, learning, and reflecting so that I can be the best role-model and influence I can be to my future children.” And it means never being afraid to admit that I don’t know what the hell I’m talking about but I’d sure like to learn.
I have two kids and a delightfully odd husband, Brett. My children are Noah (born to us in 1997) and Madison (born to her first mom, Pennie, in 2004 and brought to our family through a domestic, open adoption). They are my inspiration and also the reason I don't get more done around here.
I'm a writer and sometimes I get published, which is a nice thing. I write for joy, I write for money and when I'm very lucky, both things happen at the same time. My work appears in national publications including Yoga Journal, Disney's Family.com, Utne, Wondertime, Brain Child and Salon. Currently I am working on a book about my daughter's adoption and seeking representation for the proposal. I also own Smart Cookie Communications with my husband.
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August 2nd, 2007 at 5:58 am
This is such an interesting meme. I love learning more about your family history. Your kid’s first words are too funny!