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	<title>Comments on: Happy 4th birthday, Madison!</title>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 07 Sep 2008 14:33:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Jody</title>
		<link>http://www.thiswomanswork.com/2008/03/30/happy-4th-birthday-madison/#comment-8085</link>
		<dc:creator>Jody</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 20:41:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Birthday, Madison!</description>
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		<title>By: Veronica</title>
		<link>http://www.thiswomanswork.com/2008/03/30/happy-4th-birthday-madison/#comment-8069</link>
		<dc:creator>Veronica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 04:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Birthday Madison! Many hugs &#38; kisses from E to you.</description>
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		<title>By: cynthia</title>
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		<dc:creator>cynthia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 14:44:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Birthday Madison! A more beautiful 4 year old little girly never existed, I think. And that means i've been reading your blog for TWO years. And now blog because of that, somewhat. I really like what you said here a lot- it seems like a beautiful integration of a lot of things you (and the rest of us) have been mulling over for some time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy Birthday Madison! A more beautiful 4 year old little girly never existed, I think. And that means i&#8217;ve been reading your blog for TWO years. And now blog because of that, somewhat. I really like what you said here a lot- it seems like a beautiful integration of a lot of things you (and the rest of us) have been mulling over for some time.</p>
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		<title>By: Ally</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ally</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 13:47:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Birthday Madison!</description>
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		<title>By: ibex67</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Mar 2008 13:20:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>"This is a subtle paradigm shift for me but an important one. It’s not the same as dismissing her experience; it’s a different emphasis"

I am in a very similar place.  It's too new and visceral for me to be able to lay it out in a narrative -- but I really get what you mean here.   BlueJ turns 5 tomorrow and this has been a month of introspection for me.  In part because I have been going through the photos to make an album for her,  And *that* is challenging because of the back-and-foth history we have.  We have huge gaps, yk?</description>
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<p>I am in a very similar place.  It&#8217;s too new and visceral for me to be able to lay it out in a narrative &#8212; but I really get what you mean here.   BlueJ turns 5 tomorrow and this has been a month of introspection for me.  In part because I have been going through the photos to make an album for her,  And *that* is challenging because of the back-and-foth history we have.  We have huge gaps, yk?</p>
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