and Brett said…
“I don’t know.”
This birthmom has all sorts of other issues so I think it’s kind of funny that they don’t scare us but the same town thing does. I really respect Brett’s concerns and I love him so as much as I’d like to talk him into it, I’m going to let him handle this now. He says he’d like to come home and call the social worker and ask her some more questions about the situation. (I didn’t even ask about prenatal care; I’m always just so thrilled to be getting a precall.) Then I’ll go with what he says. Of course, I hope he says please share our bio and thank you very much but if he doesn’t, well, he’s said yes to everything up until now and he’ll say yes again. We’ll see.
Stay tuned for updates, same bat time, same bat channel.
Ugh…the waiting is so darn tough, but I agree in that it has to be something both are comfortabe with. There is a ton of “circumstances” I’m ok with that Joe has a difficult time accepting. Hugs.